Setting up House rules
In order for the home environment to be as good as possible for everyone living in your house when new spirit beings are introduced, clear House Rules must be established. All new spirits that come to your home should sign a contract where your specific rules are listed. There should also be a printed or handwritten copy in your home placed somewhere that is easy for spirits to find. You can also use oneo r a couple of physically printed or handwritten contracts to scatter it in the form of ashes around the entrance and exit of your property strengthen your message and signal your wishes to all who approach your domain.
Suggested House Rules
The contract can take many different forms because everyone has individual wishes for how things should be in their own home. It is important to establish boundaries, so don't feel bad about being strict. Here are some suggestions for basic rules that most keepers agree on the necessity of including:
- Do not fight any other spirits indoors
- Do not threaten any people or spirits here
- Do not interrupt me during my sleep or at work unless there is an emergency
- Do not pretend to be someone you're not
- Ask for permission before touching anyone
- Do not make sexual advances towards me without clear consent
- Do not feed on my energy or interact with any of my magickal workings without permission
- Do not interract with any of my belongings including electronic devices without permission
- Please deflect any danger coming my way and warm me if my protections are vulnerable
- If you invite other spirits, make sure they obey the rules as well